Wendy Hammers
Wendy is a vibrant, funny, immediately likable performer who has appeared on popular shows including “Mad About You,” “Curb Your Enthusiasm” and “The Sopranos,” as well as at stand-up comedy venues around the country. She is also an pancreatic cancer survivor, who's talks on “breaking up with cancer” continue to offer tools for patients and loved ones alike.
The Wendy connection
Shortly after Donna was diagnosed, in October of 2021, I was scanning the web for information and inspiration. I came across a YouTube video of a pancreatic cancer survivor. Her energy, humor and enthusiasm for life reminded me a lot of Donna. I showed Donna the video, and she was equally inspired and moved. This woman had beat the odds, which is exactly what Donna intended to do! One of the messages that resonated with my dear wife was, “I’m a survivor, because I am still here!!” Donna had already been telling her friends that “this is MY cancer and MY body, and I am NOT a statistic!” The new phrase would give her the validation, confidence and hope that she needed to squelch any remaining doubts.
Somehow, I found the woman’s email address, and reached out. Wendy Hammers responded immediately, and asked if she could call Donna. When I told Donna, she burst into tears. She was so moved and touched that a stranger would want to talk to her and listen to her story. The two women chatted, cried, laughed and promised to stay in touch. Wendy never had a chance to meet Donna in person, but she had a profound impact on her. She gave her first-hand proof that this disease could be conquered. Donna believed that, in her heart, for the rest of her life.
I had the pleasure of seeing Wendy in a one-act play in Los Angeles in December 2024, and we finally met in person. I know that Donna would have loved being there, and would be proud that I am keeping the connection alive.
Wendy joined us at the Blue Note at Daisy Fest 2025 to share an insider’s perspective on living with cancer and surviving. And she finally got to meet Donna, in the place that she loved, with the music that she lived for.